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As a 52 year old single mom, I planned this expedition to honor my parents, who created adventures on a shoestring. I was traveling with just one child, because my 19 year old was working at a summer camp.[How to conquer 4 common road trip challenges to have less chaos and more fun]While I coordinated logistics, my younger child ignored my campaign of cartography by walking past the kitchen with canada goose clearance sale Top 40 tunes Canada Goose Parka streaming on her canada goose coats iPod Touch. The truth was that I spent far canada goose coats on sale too much time online, answering emails from students and buy canada goose jacket checking Facebook when my children weren’t looking. But unlike everyone I Canada Goose online knew, I didn’t carry a cellphone in my daily life. Because we live in a 900 square foot duplex on the college campus where I teach, it was usually easy to get in touch with me, although some colleagues cheap canada goose uk taunted me for my Luddite behavior. So I printed directions for the trip from Google maps, just in case, and added minutes to a prepaid flip phone.Our uk canada goose first morning in San Francisco, I asked my daughter whether she wanted to check the map to find the affordable restaurant recommended by our hotel.»I don’t like maps,» she announced.Growing hungrier as we ascended another hill, she finally asked to see the guide cheap Canada Goose to the city. Within 15 minutes, she had found our destination, where she ordered waffles and I savored a mug of coffee. We became co navigators: She counted the blocks on the map as we walked while I used it to orient us, and then we relied on hunches.After walking nearly four miles round trip on the Golden Gate Bridge the next day, I led us to a bus headed in the wrong direction, adding an extra hour of canada goose outlet transit at bedtime.»It’s good to get lost so you can Canada Goose Outlet get yourself out of the situation,» I told her.The true test came when we rented a Hyundai to drive up the Oregon coast. At the rental car office in the airport, I showed the agent my canada goose uk black friday printed directions to Highway 101.»These are all wrong,» she said. «Google is taking you away from the city, but there’s no traffic now. My route will save you an hour.»As we drove, my preteen co pilot kept the map folded by her feet. Rather than counting Canada Goose Jackets city blocks, she tracked exit numbers, and I checked on our progress when we stopped for road trip junk food.On our last day, when I was feeling smug about my experiment, we took a ferry in the morning and planned to take public transit back to my sister Margaret’s house in West Seattle. When we couldn’t find the right bus, I reached into my bag for my flip phone to call her for help. But I’d left it charging in her living room.I couldn’t call an Uber or look up the bus route. My anti tech advocacy had stranded us.»Maybe we should take the bus across the street that’s going in the opposite direction?» my daughter asked. I looked across the busy intersection and saw that she was right. After a week, she was reading maps but more important, trusting her gut by paying attention to her surroundings. My father would have approved.As an adult, I watched my dad rely more on my mother’s instincts than his analytical skills when they completed the trifecta of long distance hikes: the Appalachian, Pacific Crest and Continental Divide trails. He said their greatest asset on the trail was her intuition. At ages 58 and 63, they died in separate bicycling accidents two years apart, both killed by teenage drivers in uk canada goose outlet our Alabama hometown. Their adventurous lives and sudden deaths a decade earlier influenced every decision I made, especially when I didn’t know what direction to take. This road trip with a map I held in my hands showed me the big picture, rather than a digital image. My parents would have enjoyed seeing their oldest daughter and youngest granddaughter unfolding a map to chart the path ahead.

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